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08
Oct
07

What’s in a name?

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M. A. Vellodi

vellodi_tn@airtelbroadband.in

 

About fifty years ago,  I was at the United Nations on a longish assignment.  I was a member of a small group of United Nations diplomats who met very often to discuss  everythimg from  Pol Pot to the Post Adjustment for Ulan Bator that determined the salary of a United Nations official  posted   in Mongolia.

 

One of our favourite pastimes was at lunch in the United Nations Dining room overlooking the East River, which was at least four time a week. On any given day,  there were at lunch more than seventy-five  Ambassadors and the same  number of  Senior U.N. Staff members and junior diplomats from the Permanent Missions to the U.N. Each one of our little group – we were around six or eight – had to choose any ten diners at tables within hearing distance and guess their nationalities.  Guesses on persons with special garbs like the Sari and some of the Africans and  Arabs fetched lower marks.  Points were allotted during the dessert. The winner and  the runner-up had to foot the bill for all of us.  No one could win or be runnerup more than five times a month. The U.N. staff members and delegates,  who came more in contact with the delegates in the Committee rooms, had their points reduced by 29 %

 

After I left the UN and the  Indian diplomatic Service this game all but vanished for want of suitable arenas for playing the game. After I got associated with the NGOs and especially after I became a part of The Banyan in 1994, I revived this game but as a  solitaire.  Everytime I met a new staff member or a frequent visitor to The Banyan  -  those were the happy days when I visited The Banyan thrice a week – I would get to talk to that person and in a space of the self-stipulated ten minutes, would guess her or his State in India. For my State of Kerala   which next to Tamil Nadu probably has the largest representation among the Banyan staff, Trustees and Friends of the Banyan,   I try to  make the guess even at the District level  because the Malayalam accent is very distinct in different Districts,  Trissur being the broadest and Valluvanad (naturally mine ) being the best. I wanted to play this game with the residents but felt that they may not be very comfortable with my Tamil  it being the Chenthamizh of Chilapathikaram vintage.

 

Recently I made a bloomer.  I told Ranjitha,  our very competent and equally charming newsbreaker, a la Professor Higgins,  that  her family was of Sri Lankan origin. This was way wide off the pitch and as embarrassing as the Aussies’ very unsporting high scores againt us  in recent games.   But this is not stopping my little game  as the Aussies’  scores are  not  worrying our men in Blue. So, watch out when I approach you seemingly  for a document or some data  but in reality  for one of my phonetic exercises.

22
Sep
07

Status Message: Asking for Trouble

Mohan Ramamoorthy

mohan.ramamoorthy@thebanyan.org

At Banyan, the IT that rattles everyone is not the income tax variety. It is the Information Technology kind that people keep grumbling about… (at one point, Syed was the most sought after male in TBC…)

Suddenly, Microsoft was thrown out, and with it went the outlook mail… (mails in many accounts were never rehabilitated…!) and in came google apps and the professional initiation by none other than the irrepressible Vaishnavi…

Lotsa things happened – many of them embarassing unmentionables which cannot be recorded for posterity in this blog…

But never-say-die in-house IT guru sent this mail (with some great insights into human behaviour – see point 4)…

Please follow these practices henceforth

1. Always remain signed into chat

2. Whether free (green) or busy (red), pls indicate in status message which centre you are in and whether you are in a meeting etc – this helps avoid unnecessary queries / phone calls as to where a person is etc

3. ….

4. If a file is not of use to all and is just for one-time reading pls embed copy into email instead of sending attachments – people postpone opening things – human tendency

5. Label your mails – they are more dynamic than folders and Inbox becomes more organised – work is easier to follow up on

6. Indicate your schedule in advance on your Calendar – scheduling a meeting is taking too much time otherwise and too many phonecalls”

(Her mail incidentally has this disclaimer

“This email and any files transmitted with it are confidential and
intended solely for the use of the individual or entity to whom they
are addressed….”
etc. But this time I hope she will waive it in the public

interest…!

Also, she is the only one in The Banyan I know who will dutifully activate the out of office autoreply – rarely even when you can spot her at TBC)

I dont know about the other diktats, but Banyanites took the first suggestion seriously and suddenly, despite a character restriction, some great poetic, philosophical, confessional, existential, inane, cryptic status messages began to appear…

Here’s my pick:

B’day girl on Sept 12: older but not wiser

Another one from Vaishnavi with (Bob) Dylanesque flavor: blown’inwind
Damsel in distress Vanitha Venkat: Dont know where I’m

Creative communicator Ranjitha: In transit

(which reportedly got Vaishnavi’s Wow)

Forever on the move Ashok Sir: On ECR

CMHP big boss Porkodi: In Psych OP

Another gem, though cant remember the identity: “Poori’s old cabin”

Mine, the inane one.. “At Home” (with bosses asking Why??)

(Pssst… Some always have the busy sign on – making poor me very envious of them…)

Please send your favourites to Ranjitha or if tech savvy post it directly on this blog….

How about giving a prize for the best one…? Please vote…

08
Sep
07

Wah! Banyan!

Mohan Ramamoorthy

mohan.ramamoorthy@thebanyan.org

The recent South Asia Fund Raising Group’s workshop in Agra, like other events, was an opportunity to network…

But I am not good at networking, relationship management… that doesn’t mean I am an anti-social… I can somewhat manage. Can talk about Banyan – taking liberally from Banyan Coords wonderful presentations…

Along the way, they invariably ask: “How long have you been with Banyan?” Now, I have two stock answers and use them depending on the need and occasion…

a) “Oh, I have been with The Banyan for the past three-four months only…”

b) “I have known Banyan and its founder trustees since mid-Nineties….”
 

Banyan, the Growing Up Pangs
There I saw this particularly striking and impressive youngster. Confident and impressive with loads of attitude. Seemed dedicated and passionate, a result-oriented bundle of energy. Deliberately careless and casual in cool chic jeans and tees.

In a split second, it struck old me… this youngster (gender, I will not tell you) is the personification of The Banyan, in the prime of adolescence.

Youthful Banyan. Raring to go and conquer the world. Impulsive actions and intuitive thinking. Emotions guiding the mind. Strategies born in action and out of genuine concerns. Method in madness and action in chaos. Heart in the right place. Constant tension between “activist” types and “professional” types that Banyan manages to take into its fold. Ask Chaitali!!

Grew incredibly fast, evoking admiration in friends and envy in critics/enemies. Fire in the belly of women in hurry (“So much to do and achieve for social good”, VG, paranoid about dipping energies, administering a dose of inspiration, said “Pausing is death”). But there’s no denying – Banyan has got it right and made the most of its adolescence..

Sadly, you can’t forever be an adolescent. Sadly again, you need to grow up, baby.

Banyan is at a critical juncture… How Banyan can professionalise itself without losing its unique creative chaos… (Is creative chaos too an integral part of the “Mor(e)” celebrated Banyan DNA?!)…

The challenge is to mature, while retaining the youthful exuberance of adolescence. Methinks, there is a struggle in The Banyan to maintain that fine, delicate balance. Each time there is a move to streamline something, there is concern (more often said than unsaid) if it would kill some unique aspect of The Banyan.

I dont know which path the youngster (I saw in Agra) would take – be a conscientious corporate executive or a radical activist. Either ways, s/he is born to make a world of difference. And, that is all that matters at the end of the day.

What next, Banyan? You will have to wait. One day, like the milestone Nimhans study, some H(arvard)BR prof. or someone will capture it for you!!

25
Aug
07

Of new beginnings

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(Pic: Courtesy The Hindu)

P. Jayendra

jayendra@realimage.com

The photograph in The Hindu captured it all – tree planting symbolising everything The Banyan is doing now (experimenting with multiple models).

 Dr. A.P.J Abdul Kalam’s expression speaking the same genuine and simple language of his words, Vaishnavi’s laughter defining her joy and Vandana’s clap applauding the people who have come together for the cause as well as calling their attention to the huge unfinished work ahead…

20
Aug
07

Awaiting a hero…

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Diwakar S.R.

bhatta70@yahoo.com

Dr. Kalam on his earlier visit to The Banyan, seen with Vandana, Vaishnavi, Diwakar and residents

I am looking forward to meeting one of my greatest “REAL LIFE HEROES” again after close to six years . Well, I feel no  one would be better choice to inaugrate our Kovalam Projects for the people than the widely popular “Peoples  (ex) President” of our country – Dr.Abdul Kalam. 

As I look forward to meeting him again, I recall the day he first visited The Banyan in the year 2001. It was an afternoon, the day before our 8th anniversary function  for which he was to be the Chief Guest. He was the Scientific Advisor to the Defence Minister at that time and had also been  awarded the Bharat Ratna that year.

 His humility and modesty were evident from the minute of his arrival when he stopped the horde of high level security officers accompanying from entering The Banyan  stating he was on a personal visit and didn’t want to disturb or frighten the residents.  He was shown around the building by Vandana, Vaishnavi and others – along with a starry-eyed ME!!

He spent close to an hour going to all the floors and interacting a lot with the residents. He got to know, in detail,  how  The Banyan’s system works from the time a resident Is referred or picked up by us till the stage when they are rehabilitated and reintegrated with their family. At the end of the rounds I was given the opportunity for an exclusive photograph with him in the Conference hall. Those moments will be cherished by all – starting with me for a lifetime.

And the framed photograph in my house is there to cheer and inspire me every day… The following year he was chosen to occupy the highest office of our country. During his tenure as  President he supported worked on various social issues including mental illness – the area in which The Banyan works. Now he his back to his favourite occupation, teaching.

It’s certainly an honour for us to have him back in the city and our midst once again to inaugurate the Kovalam Projects.  

06
Aug
07

Once a diplomat, one for life!

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V3 – The terrible threesome! - Being Chairman requires all the diplomatic skills and experience of M.A. Vellodi – the one man peace keeping force of The Banyan!

My first confrontation with the word ‘Social’ was in the context of the United Nations. The first Indian Chairman of the United Nations Economic and Social Council was Sir Arcot Ramaswamy Mudaliar and I had the honorofic title of “Adviser” which in that context gave me the task of distributing speeches and documents of the Indian Delegation to the rest.  
 
Mudaliar was a fine man. He never wore his habitual turban abroad and always sat upright on his chair and never moved his head except when speaking. He was an excellent speaker but always read from written text. Always written with Kohinoor lead pencil. If on going over it before delivery he found one word not quite appropriate, he would erase it with the bottom of his pencil and rewrite a more fitting word.The next time I saw Mudaliar was in the company of the one and only Mary Clubwala Jadhav. It was at a reception in her magnificent home at the corner of Sterling Road. Why I was asked to the party I never knew. I am sure it was a mistake as I was only a senior student in Loyola College at the time.  
 
The next time I saw Mrs. Clubwalla was in very sad circumstances. She had been very ill and her legs had been amputated. She was in a Bombay hospital where I went to pay my last respects. I was due to retire from Government in a few years.. She asked me what I intended to do after retirement. When this question was met by silence, she, in a low but clear voice, suggested to me that I consider helping the Guild of Service in whatever way I could. And today I am the Vice President of the Guild.  
 
It was in the Guild one afternoon that Vandana and Vaishnavi came to see me. They had been directed to me by Mr. K. N. George who felt that I might be able to advise them on how to proceed with their project which was nothing less than starting a home for destitute mentally ill women. Vandana said it as if the project was a tea shop on Casa Major Road. I was dumbstruck for a moment, Vandana noticed it and told me that they had been told all the negative aspects of their proposal and would I, for a change, mention a few positive elements. What struck me was the very plain fact they appeared totally committed but had very little knowledge of what their project involved in personnel, money and sheer relentless toil. They had their answers ready, da capo, ” We want to do this and we shall do this”. After such an opening there was nothing to do except to wish them well and give them a small donation on the occasion of their first anniversary which was due in the following week.  
 
I have watched Vandana and Vaishnavi at work and at play for over thirteen years. And I have got to know them as well as anyone can. Let not Vandana’s fine figure and Vaishnavi’s disarming smile, mislead you. They are tough and they know what they want. They are different – Vandana is ebullient, dedicated and passionate, loves dancing and adores her canine friends. Vaishnavi is private Though equally impassioned and committed, she does not like to reveal or share her thoughts and loves reading books and is a workaholic. They both have strong views but are complementary and are one on issues of substance.  
 
Perhaps the most significant innovation one finds in the offices of the Banyan is the very important role played by the staff in management. Not for them the formal agenda of long and heavy Committee meetings except in order to lay down the general framework within which one can play.  
 
Decisions are taken without hesitation as long as they are for the good of The Banyan. The incredible growth of The Banyan in networking , outreach, community health and even an academy for generating leadership in mental health have been possible only through the novel and untraditional working methods.  
 
Let me stop with the amazing story of three senior staff members, without any prior consultation and approval of their seniors are on the verge of entering into an agreement with the Kanchipuram District authorities for the total handling of all mental health problems and programmes in the district, a project which in the normal course would have involved referrals, second opinions and scores of meetings – and I am sure they will do a splendid job of it. Good Going, Banyan !

  

02
Aug
07

Growing with The Banyan

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S. Bhavna

Class 7, Vidya Mandir

 

The Banyan according to me is really like a huge banyan tree which shelters hundreds of mentally ill women. It was first a small sapling which, has over the years grown into the huge and successful tree that it now is.

When I first came to The Banyan I was very scared of the people there. But then they came to me, shook hands with me and tied a friendship band around my hand as it was Friendship Day…that was the first and last time I was ever scared of them. Now at every festival and occasion I love dancing for them, entertaining them and also playing with them. I must say that most of them are extremely talented and can dance and sing very well!!!

When I was younger, I used to feel pity for the women who were at The Banyan because of their illness. But later I realized that they were in the best of hands because the people working and volunteering  there took such good care of them and still do.

Now many of them are cured and have gone back to their homes to live a normal life and it is all because of The Banyan…

I am proud to be part of The Banyan through volunteering there and love visiting whenever possible. I think it’s sad that these mentally ill women are out of their homes but at least they have a home away from home  here.

I hope you all will help and support The Banyan. If you guys out there haven’t visited yet, don’t worry cause its never too late and maybe I will be able to meet some of you there!!!

But most important of all don’t forget – The Banyan rox!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

01
Aug
07

An Evolution of Thought

 Mohan Ramamoorthy

 mohan.ramamoorthy@thebanyan.org

As a college student in the late 1970s, I stumbled upon psychology’s big daddy Freud. A city pal misled me saying that lotsa Hyderabad college girls – many of them very pretty – were studying something called BA (Pscyh). That’s it. Given my thirst for knowledge, I had to figure out what it was all about. I did find a book on Frued in the town library and some pages in an encyclopedia. Sadly, in those days I never got an opportunity to show off my superficial knowledge of Freud’s interpretation of dreams, Oedipus complex and what not. But that’s another story.

I moved on but the psychology bug remained dormant somewhere in my psyche. It surfaced in the early Eighties. A rebellious streak in me developed a huge appetite for “revolutionary” ideas. That’s it. I had to know what was revolutionary in the world of psychology/psychiatry. And, I discovered R D Laing and Cooper and the anti-psychiatry movement in a Hyderabad libary. And, radical psychiatry in Delhi. Fancy stuff, indeed. My favourite one-liner was (reportedly from a hollywood movie in which a hard-nosed cop says contemptuously to a psychiatrist): “Doc, I know what you guys do – you make healthy people adjust to a sick world..” (something on those lines…)

Come Nineties, I saw from close quarters the suffering undergone by some near and dear ones due to schizophrenia. There was so much agony, uncertainty, stigma, and of course care-giver’s stress and burden. Around that time, RK, my friend (now ex-colleague) introduced me to The Banyan and I became an occasional visitor. There were a few crisis situations involving the near and dear ones and RK was always there to use his charm and good offices with The Banyan, Dr. Nambi of IMH, and Dr. Anbudurai…

Soon, I began to shed a lot of my past baggage and started looking at the mental health from a practical perspective – grounded in Indian reality. Bits of past knowledge – like rights-based concepts of deinstitutionalization – continue to be quite relevant even now.

Cut to 2007. Once again, RK and I were at the TBC -The Banyan Centre (soon that and other abbreviations were to invade my vocabulary and the in-boxes of my e-mail and cellphone…). The Banyan Academy idea excited me. And, here I am once again trying to figure out some earthy and exciting concepts like alternative therapies, faith-healing, etc. intervention programmes like DMHP, CMHP, VT, OT, DA (more abbrevs there), and new-fangled stuff like social enterprise…

Another new journey begins…

31
Jul
07

Gerhard’s Banyan

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 R.K. RADHAKRISHNAN
 rariyam@yahoo.com

Standing at the head of the table, beer glass in hand, raised for a toast, I wondered if the words I was about to utter would be appropriate. Not that I stand on propriety when I want to make a point. But this time it was different. I thought of the man to whom I was raising a toast. 

“What would he think of me?”

Spoken words, unlike the written, are not amenable to amendments.

Maybe he would dismiss it with a wave of his left hand — that is if he bothered to lift an arm at all. Or he would just sit there and look amused.

But then the man, Gerhard Fischer, was no longer there.

Earlier this year, he died in Germany. We, a few of his friends, were at the rooftop of Hotel Ranjith to celebrate the man who had taught all of us a few things just by being himself. He loved the place. Gerhard did not like air-conditioning and there were few places in town that did not have air-conditioning and served liquor. After all, Chennai’s weather demands that even the slightly up-market places are air-conditioned. So each time he was in Chennai, a few dinners on the rooftop would always be part of the agenda.

“To the man who taught us that the best way to beat the Banyan Standard Time was to follow it,” I remember having said to cackles around.

Banyan Standard Time had serious differences with the Indian Standard Time. Anyone who interacts with The Banyan will have a few experiences to narrate on the delays they encountered. Often, this happened because everyone at The Banyan took on much more than they could possibly deliver in a day. Sometimes this was because of difficult people who made The Banyan’s representative wait for hours on end to get something done. (More often than not, to collect a cheque that was long overdue.)

I have often been upset about the manner (very callous, I used to think) in which I was made to wait hours on end when my job was supposed to have been done in a flash. But I do not remember seeing Gerhard angry or upset over BST. He simply worked around BST and ensured that he got other work done during the time he was supposed to be waiting. Copycat me, I too began carrying work to The Banyan whenever I was asked to be there for some meeting or the other. The only problem though: I never had enough of work to carry!!! You see, we journalists get away pretending that we have loads of work and that the world will collapse if we did not get to point A or B within the designated time

I am trying to recall the second line of my three-line toast. My memory fails me. May be it’s because of the weather. May be it is the early onset of dementia. Will know soon enough. In a couple of years, perhaps.

My third line was something like this: “To the man who democratised care- giving at a time when it was monopolised by Christian charities.” It is sad that Gerhard’s contribution to redefining care-giving in the third world went virtually unnoticed in the media. It was hardly seen in the right perspective.

Even after he was awarded the Gandhi Peace Prize in 1997.

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Picture this: A man with not much money to give away was helping run anti-leprosy projects across India, in Nepal and Vietnam. He was a little disillusioned with the experience in Vietnam and Nepal, but his dozen-or-so stations in India were doing very well. And depended on him for carrying out their work.

I asked him once how he managed to find funds for supporting the causes he believed in.

“I talk,” he said.

“Where,” I asked.

“Anywhere. To whoever would pay me. Churches, parks, schools, colleges, welfare associations…anywhere,” he said. “Of course, no big money. I do not want big money.”

Fischer spent close to 3 months each year travelling across Europe speaking to various groups of people and telling them why they should support projects in India. He once tied up with a local Parent Teacher Association close to his hometown in Ubersee, south of Munich. The deal: Each parent would give one euro for each mile that their child ran! It worked. The children – motivated by the towering old man, kept alive by three pacemakers and mobile thanks to a few steel plates – ran. The whole school ran.

“We had to call off the marathon because of the searing heat,” said Gerhard. But not before collecting enough money to build a school in Salem. Much later, I think it was about a year later, one student from the school came to visit the now-ready building. It was her first trip outside Germany. I met her at Gerhard’s favourite hotel — the Taj Connemara — and could make out that she was not too comfortable in the open-air restaurant. But she told me in halting English that she had never experienced anything like what she had been through in Salem before. “Life altering,” Gerhard corrected.

That was Gerhard. A one-man institution who found a cause, kicked his job as a diplomat (I wonder how he fared as one since he always preferred speaking his mind), supported it with funds he generated, and gave the confidence to the people who ran the projects that money would come. He also audited all projects and went back with black-and-white results for his donors to see.

“When I take money from someone,” he once told me, “I always tell them where it went.” It is a very difficult task when the money is small and donor base is large. But for a man who woke up at 4 a.m. and slept around mid-night, there was enough time in every single day to communicate with each one of his donors.

How did Gerhard get to The Banyan? I don’t know. But I do remember that even he — who always believed in doing the impossible — thought that building Adaikalam in the land donated by the government in Mogappair within the time frame that The Banyan had set for itself, was out of the question.

“These girls must be crazy,” I remember him telling me.

“They are,” I agreed.

“You too think so,” he asked. “You think they will be able to do this in a year? No, no.”

I think that conversation was around the time when the bhoomi puja was happening. Saptharishi, now with Headlines Today, took the role of a hindu purohit and performed poojas. There were representatives from all religions and also from among the residents. I think Sheela, a resident who has been in and out of The Banyan and many other institutions including the Institute of Mental Health, Kilpauk, was part of the foundation stone ceremony.

For those of you not in the loop, the story is like this: Rasheeda Bhagat, now Senior Associate Editor, The Hindu BusinessLine, who was at that point (early nineties) Bureau Chief, The Indian Express, wrote an article, saying that The Banyan wanted land to locate its project — to look after the mentally ill destitute women.

The then Chief Minister Dr. J Jayalalithaa, who read the article, called The Banyan’s Founder Trustees, Vandana and Vaishnavi for a meeting. She asked them how much land they wanted. I think Vandana said she wanted 20 grounds or so. Dr. Jayalalithaa said that so much land was not available within the city. She asked Vandana if she knew how many grounds made an acre. Vandana, the fantastic mathematician, said something like 16 – 20 grounds. That possibly was the only time officials laughed out in Jayalalithaa’s chamber. To cut the story short, The Banyan got 6 and half grounds at Mogappair. Governments changed in 1996 and The Banyan had serious problems getting hold of the land. But with help from a lot of people around, the transfer finally did take place. And, the Banyan decided to complete construction in a year. Something, many thought, was impossible. The cost was more than Rs. 2 Crore.

Adaikalam

One year later, Gerhard and I stood at the same place. “Unbelievable,” he said, looking at the magnificent structure that Devi Prasad had built for The Banyan. “I have been around, you know,” he was telling no one in particular. “But this is amazing. I have not seen anything like this. How did this happen?” He really did not think it was possible to get everything in place in a year. He had not been able to do it.

I believe that The Banyan went up in his esteem then. May be – I get the feeling – he began taking The Banyan much more seriously from then on. He made it a point to spend time at The Banyan each time he was here in Chennai.

28
Nov
06

The Banyan movie